Being.

Inspiration

2010-02-04T21:18:00.000-08:00

Flux, change, landing, bouncing, floating again...several months back "home" in New Orleans have brought their own joys and challenges. The year I was gone I somehow managed to delude myself into thinking of the US as a stable place, of "home" as somewhere that would be less existentially challenging than where I was. HAH! HAH!

I have some thoughts on carnival, on the crazed energy which entrances inhabitants of the city, of the general unity underlying chaos and clarity, but I will leave them all for later, and turn instead to words from those far wiser than myself.

Tonight, I am inspired by the eloquent words of an Indian sage, taken from the Autobiography of a Yogi (51-2), by Paramahansa Yogananda, and published by the Self-Realization Fellowship:

"I have long exercised an honest introspection, the exquisitely painful approach to wisdom. Self-scrutiny, relentless observance of one's thoughts, is a stark and shattering experience. It pulverizes the stoutest ego. But true self-analysis mathematically operates to produce seers. The way of 'self-expression,' individual acknowledgments, results in egoists.... Truth humbly retires, no doubt, before such arrogant originality.

Man can understand no eternal verity until he has freed himself from pretensions....Struggles of the battlefield pale into significance here, when man first contends with inner enemies! Omnipresent, unresting, pursuing man even in sleep...these soldiers of ignorant lust seek to slay us all. Thoughtless is the man who buries his ideals, surrendering to the common fate....

To love both invisible God, Repository of All Virtues, and visible man, apparently possessed of none, is often baffling! But ingenuity is equal to the maze. Inner research soon exposes a unity of all human minds...An aghast humility follows this leveling discovery. It ripens into compassion for ones fellows....Only the shallow man loses responsiveness to the suffering of others' lives, as he sinks into the narrow suffering of his own."

And later, page 58,
"Solitude is necessary to become established in the self, but masters then return in the world to serve it. Even saints who engage in no outward works bestow, through their thoughts and holy vibrations, more precious benefits on the world than can be given by the most strenuous humanitarian activities of unenlightened men. The great ones...strive selflessly to inspire and uplift their fellows."

I would like to copy many more passages, but with due respect to copyright, which allows quotes only for book reviews, I will leave you with only this, giving the book thusfar five stars, and encouraging you all to pick up a copy for inspiration.

Funniest Shit Ever

2009-12-02T21:53:00.000-08:00

Pay extra attention for the Indian kid's spot on head wiggle: "Do you wanna go again?"

Pictures, pictures everywhere! A few words in between.

2009-08-04T00:50:00.000-07:00

Ani Kuntsang Wangmo, whose full name means "Everything good in the world" and "Empowered Woman," makes wicks for butter lamp offerings.

"A thousand pages would not be enough for five minutes of real experience in India."

So says a journal entry of mine from February. So, I'm stuck somewhere between a thousand pages and nothing- unsure of how to convey life here or where to start. My time has been focused in three main places: the Kathmandu Valley of Nepal, Bodhgaya in North India (where the Buddha attained enlightenment), and McLeod Ganj/Dharmshalla (home to His Holiness the Dalai Lama, a Tibetan Refugee colony, and an eclectic community of foreigners who flock here for a range of spiritual and political interests).

The first part of my trip- all of Bodhgaya, Kolkata, Varanasi, and my early time in Nepal- was all traveled sans camera (well, there was a polaroid- but that wont help you), so these pictures are all from March onward.

Since November, I've balanced time between studying Buddhadharma, primarily in the Tibetan tradition, practicing meditation and yoga, working for my friend Neil with groups of University Volunteers through LHA (lhainfo.org) North India, and sharing and learning from an amazing array of foreigners and locals alike.

Playing mom to the tired little nuns during a daytrip.

Sketches from Bodhgaya.

There have been countless music nights, dance parties on crowded Indian trains and buses, peaceful moments at Kopan Monastery, Nagi Gompa, Tushita Meditation Center, and the Ganga (and incredibly difficult times in all the same), and opportunities to share with several amazing groups of University students from Louisiana as they explored India for the first time.

The Boudanath Stupa at sunset.

This is what monsoon looks like.

A friend Christina plays us guitar in McLeod Ganj.

This trip has defied all expectations. It has been a time for painful, amazing, and necessary personal growth. I came here for myself- to learn methods, through meditation, to get over my anxiety, my worries, my neurosis. But what I've received, what I've learned, is anything but personal.

I studied political economy, thinking I would change the world with some well executed, holistic development plan I would complete sometime by my mid-fifties. Unfortunately, I didn't connect this so well with how I lived my life in a very immediate sense.

So know that I'm not here on a joyride; I'm not here to negate the responsibilities of home or forget those of you who I love. On the contrary; I'm here, working on myself, and my shit, so I can be more open, more genuine, and all around better for all of us.

Jenny watching the world pass through the surrounding shantytowns of Delhi.

Sunset from Triune

But lets not forget the joy- the lighter side of it all: living in a village outside Bodhgaya, waking up to roosters, baby goats, and adorable, Black-eyed baby Indians; tip-toeing around the monkey gangs at Tushita, setting my chai-count (the Indians drink short,sweet cups of spiced milk tea. They stop often to do this, valuing the social time and rest as much or more than the tea. It is the opposite of coffee-togo)in Varanasi for 50 in a week, but getting sick and only making it to 38; and learning to appreciate Bollywood in all its eye-wiggling, head-wiggling, sensory overloading glory.

Chaos, Confusion, Clutter! clarity, calm, insight.

Neil + Shree Ramakrishna = Awesome.

The colors and patterns of India.

A dear friend, Kin, whose music inspired most of this trip, sings into the sunset from a roof in H.P., North India.

In my time here, I've come to find greater unity in, well, everything. I see that my panic or frustration in a given moment doesn't have much to do with the conditions, and has much more to do with my mind and my projections. Same goes for the joy, peace, and love in my life, which I have habitually, to my own demise, placed outside myself. I remember friends, places, concerts, activities, and I stick my happiness there. During these times of remembrance, I've fondly thought of perhaps everyone who might read this blog. I love you all dearly, and you have been, in times of doubt, a great bolster to my spirit.

To embark alone, however, to have these experiences and traumas alone, has forced me to examine facts I would easily have painted over in the states. In the end, I've had to find meaning, inspiration, and purpose outside the comforts of University, work, bike rides, and Thursdays at Le Bon Temps. This has been the most necessary, difficult, and wonderful discovery.

Drinking some holy water in the jungle of Nepal. Thanks Shiva!

Me, mountains, India.

Me with the young Anis from Nagi Gompa after our day in the jungle. :D These girls are by far the sweetest, children I've ever had the pleasure to share time with.

Tibetans protest a crackdown in China following the birthday of His Holiness.

Crows cover the "Wish-Fulfilling" stupa in Boudanath, outside Kathmandu.

Life here is raw. It's stripped of all the custom and culture that we use to decorate it, and because I'm an outsider living in the east, the Indian/Nepali/Tibetan culture is visible, but doesn't envelope me the way America does.
For one, they burn bodies here, and be it in Delhi or Benares or Kathmandu, you can go and watch them. It sounds sick to us, doesn't it? Harsh smoke rises up in your eyes and nose as charred limbs hang from the pyre. Yet in Pashupati, a temple here in KTM, one side of the river bank has platforms for burning, and the other side has platforms for meditation.

Behind these, lay people line up along the steps and chat awhile, sucking on mangoes or sipping on chai. Its like a regular day on a pedestrian mall, except the view across the way isn't fashionable people strolling by, its dead people burning, and filty, no doubt exhausted people burning them. Does that sound horrible? At first, but then there is a great calm about it. When you realize you will go back to ash, and are aware of this, the minor issues in your life aren't so big. And when you see, openly, how the impressive military hero and the peasant have the same bones, it doesn't matter that they burn on different qualities of wood, because their bones burn the same.

A drawing of the Mahabodhi Temple at Bodhgaya in the pre-camera days of the trip.

Difficult words of wisdom from Gandhi at his memorial museum in Delhi.

Hanging with a Banyan tree at the zoo.

A man finishing ablutions at an aging mosque in Delhi.

Final words on the east? COLOR! SPICE! WOAH! chili peppers, chai, spinach. cross legs, straight back, chin tucked. OM AH HUM. renounce, grow love, find wisdom. Musakari, musakari, musakari Brits and Aussies and Indians, oh my! Hindu, Muslim, Buddhist. Professional, Elite, filthy, impoverished. THANK YOU, TUK JE CHE, DUNYEBAT! Experience for the lifetimes.

Waking up in the clouds at Nagi Gompa, a nunnery overlooking the Kathmandu Valley, where I stayed for three weeks.

A man sells spices in New Delhi's crowded markets..

A young Ani rests during a walk through the Shivapuri Forest.

I'll be home- to Missouri or New Orleans- in November. Till then, all my love.

(As per comments, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it.)

Short on Words

2009-04-17T23:48:00.000-07:00

Namaste!

I had intentions to write often, passing you the in-depth details of my "adventures" in Nepal and India. But there hasn't been much that I would call adventure, and much more that I would simply call being. The past five months- or six I suppose- have been Intense, meaningful. It's also been a complete 180 from my life in New Orleans, which, in the past few days, I've started to miss increasingly. I dance with you in the streets of my heart, dear friends!

So about India: There are monkeys here, and flying squirrels, and scorpions. The monkeys get as big as the dogs, and the flying squirrels as big as the small monkeys. At Tushita, a meditation center where I'm spending time, the red-butt monkeys (more aggressive) will run down during your lunch and steal your bananas-or bread- or whatever is in your hand. The snow monkeys are more passive; they've come down from the mountains where its too cold, and they lounge around with beautiful black faces and tails and long white hair. When they encounter flying squirrels, they sort of sneer, and the poor squirrels will dive from pine trees high on the mountain, flying top speed down down down until them seemingly slam into another tree. But the survive. Awesome.

So I've also been blessed with a new camera; the first part of the trip was on polaroid-classic, but I'm movin' on up. So here's some pictures if I make it work:

nothing witty here

2009-01-03T01:50:00.001-08:00

Happy New Year lovely people!

So I've finished my five week retreat outside Kathmandu, and have spent the past six days in Pokhara, a beautiful town in central Nepal with a large lake surrounded by mountains. Apparently its one of the best places in the world for paragliding, but I wouldn't know. I've been groundside--relaxing and settling back into life outside the walls of a pefectly kept monastery.

My five weeks at Kopan Monastery were--no words really. Probably the best thing I've ever done for myself. Without getting into the depths of it, I can say that Kopan in one of the most beautiful, peaceful places on earth. It's a main center for the FPMT- the Foundation for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition--which runs all sorts of courses on Buddhism all over the world. Kopan is on a hill up above the Kathmandu valley. The gardens are immaculate and the whole place is covered in flowers--marigolds, the purple and white paper flowers, bright orange needle neck flowers that grow in vines and hang off trees, poinsettas the size of cars, and really special purple and white starbursts the size of your hand. There are prayer wheels all around, and everything is painted boldly in red or orange.

The abbot there, Lama Lundrup, is one of the cheeriest people you'll ever meet. When Kopan started, Lama Lundrup did EVERYthing for the monks-taught all the courses, all day long- and this was before they even had sleeping quarters and they slept in tents and ate only rice. And yet now, he thanks US for coming to Nepal and working so hard! Humility at its peak. Plus, he sounds EXACTLY like yoda and says things like "I rejoice you!" Every time you see him- he blares "Hello! Tashi Delek!" AFter teaching, he thanks US, again, for listening. Oh my.

In short, it was a truly precious time to really pause and consider what I want to make of my life. Purpose? Meaning? It was a supportive atmoshpere to deeply reflect on how to restructure my life and give it meaning- to be more kind, more patient, and more generous. It was an experience I wish every person could have- to pause and to reflect.

With that, I wish you all a happy, joyful new year! i hope all is well in the states, new orleans, missouri, france, granada, italy, mexico, illinois, england, ghana, and wherever else the wind has taken you, my lovely friends.

big hugs from nepal!

Temple Midgets

2008-11-16T22:41:00.000-08:00

Ah.

Passed through the congestion of Thamel, the tourist strip of Kathmandu, and am now up in Bouddha, the Tibetan area of town part way to Kopan, where I start retreat in two days.

Spent the weekend in KTM with new friends, the party crowd that surfs around asia for the good scene. Funny people, interesting people. Omanis, (have you ever met an Omani? I hadn't. They weren't particularly amused by my excitement, but they were gorgeous.)Greeks, Italians, Nepalis, Tibetans, Indians, and me.

Spent yesterday sleeping off a touch of sickness, finally emerging this morning to head down to the stupa. Bouddha is built around a massive and well-kept stupa. Huge and white, its adorned with hundreds of strings of prayer flags, thousands of cups of marigolds that the devout must place around every morning, prayer wheels, and images of the Buddha and Guru Rinpoche (Not to mention Garuda and Ganesha--interesting how Buddhism and Hinduism mix here) carved into the side and covered in red paint.

It is always interesting to be a foreigner trying to find a place in a different land. You can embrace the full on tourist identity, shopping up a storm and drinking imported beer. You can be the sensitive traveler, keeping your camera to yourself and trying not to be obnoxious. But what if you really want to embrace part of a different culture? That's a whole different picture entirely. Walking around the stuppa, thinking, "what if i believe this? what if i believe in this faith?" Will that seem odd to locals? Where does that put you?

Anyhow, onto temple midgets. So I've circled this stuppa and finally come to the small room with the two prayer wheels about the size of a small VW. I hear squealing in the corner- children, perhaps. Then a very small man emerges, no taller than my waist, and encourages me to spin the prayer wheel. As I round the second, another temple midget, clad in the same marshmellow coat, is being tossed around playfully by an older Nepali/tibetan and laughing gleefully. Laughing loudly, and fully expecting to see Gene Wilder around the next corner, I walk around perhaps three times, more to see the happy little men then to accumulate any kind of merit. As I pass again, they motion, laughing, to their little bags of rice and money- offerings. Yes, little men, I will leave you some rupees, if simply for being the happiest people I've seen in a long time.

"You have hair like bob dylan" and other such adventures

2008-11-14T18:59:00.000-08:00

Whee! I'm back in Asia!

It doesn't feel shocking anymore, and is actually rather comfortable--the whole Asia thing that is. I suppose I have a tendency to worry and create tremendous anxiety before a big change, but in actuality, I'm having a great morning.

I woke up my first day to a foggy Delhi morning- the sun rising over tropical tree tops. I did some tai chi on our roof top garden, realizing by the time I was done that the fog was actually just pollution and remembering that Delhi is gross. Met another american girl traveling solo and spent the day drinking chai and laughing with funny Indian shopkeepers.

The journey to Kathmandu was also quite lovely. I decided this trip to do things a bit differently, so I am without camera or guidebook. Somehow, this has not made a bit of difference, except that perhaps the universe is conspiring to introduce me to lovely new friends who will help me along the way. The train ride was pleasant, spend with a family of young girls and an older grandmother who did the BEST train impersonation I have ever seen. As I was playing with the cutest of the young ones, the mother decided to tell me that the little brat was actually talking smack- saying even she could get her hair cut, why couldn't I? Rather hillarious. Happened to sit next to the one other westerner traveling to Nepal, so we hopped the 4:30am bus to the border.

The crossing went well, thanks to my guardian angel Yogel, a Tibetan/Nepali who runs two restaurants in Kathmandu and knows more about the Merry Pranksters than I do (apparently one of them now lives in Kathmandu, under the name Dorje, and has become a monk). He got us through and helped us get buses at normal prices. He has also been a great guide around the city.

I'm headed up to Boudha, the Tibetan part of town, tomorrow, and then to Kopan probably the next day.

Also, a note on Nepal: I love this place. The drive up went through verdant mountainside forests (and the occasional road block- "how people are expressing themselves" now with the new government). The people are also beautiful. There are many I could mistake for turks or italians, some distinctly chinese looking, and all you could imagine in between.

chai count: 5

My grandmother is voting Obama

2008-09-19T12:20:00.000-07:00

My grandmother is a beautiful woman. Growing up she played piano, and as her friends passed away they donated their organs and pianos to her--the result of which is a front room with FIVE different string/key instruments. When I was little we used to play old show tunes.

Now is a different time. She is like an oak tree, and the arthritis has turned her fingers into crooked old branches. She still has the same laugh, with a little click in it, and beautiful white hair like an angel. She is generous and kind and practical and smart. And she cannot vote for a black man.

Ever since she's voted, its been straight democratic ticket. When I was home a few weeks ago, we talked politics, as we always do, and she ended up (in her age, perhaps) rambling a bit about race issues in the United States. "Why do they blame us?" She doesn't see her connection to these issues and doesn't like to feel at fault. It was a different time then, and God bless her, its not for me to judge who she can and cannot vote for. I talked to her, trying to persuade. Mom later said she would simply leave the president slate blank and vote no one.

And now the banks are falling. Thanks to all you damned libertarian economists wanting to deregulate everything--glad you robber barrons can run away with our money and let the GOVERNMENT save us. Thats for later. Anyhow, after living through the depression, and remembering the value of new deal policies, and listening to Barack, my grandmother decided to vote for Obama.

Lets weigh the significance of this: She's old, she's white, and she's Southern Baptist. And she's voting for Barack Obama.

Hallelujah!

Listen up guys, if my grandma can do it so can anyone. Hope! Lets get to work and swing some voters!

Organs and Labyrinths

2008-07-02T14:10:00.000-07:00

I figure since New Orleans is pretty much one of the best cities ever, I should dedicate some past due blog time to it.

Here, a little story just for you:

Yesterday after work I biked over to Trinity Episcopal Church on Jackson Avenue. Bike rides through the city have become strolls through nostalgia- thick, deep, and clingy nostalgia that matches the tone of the city in the summer. I passed the Superdome on Poydras-and instead of remembering Step it Up or the Home Show, I remembered graduation. I remembered embracing drunk friends in the morning, and saying goodbye to them in the afternoon. The CBD- my law firm days. Corner of Jackson and St. Charles: Zulu after the craaaziest lundi gras of my life- covered in gold paint, catching a coconut, finding my dearest friends on the same corner. But enough of this, onto church!

So Trinity has one of the finest organs in the nation. There are over 5,000 pipes and it took installers almost 3 months to build the thing. On Tuesday nights, some genius with a foreign name plays the organ while interested persons come to walk the labyrinth. Have you ever walked the labyrinth? It looks like a celtic knot, but it comes from the floor of some 11th century French Cathedral. They built one in Columbia, Missouri outside Boone County Hospital. It sits on top of a hill, so when you reach the center--where you meditate, pray, etc--you look down over Stevens lake. I walked it two and a half years ago and have loved it since.

The entire ceremony was terribly pagan. Here we are, in some giant Episcopal church, with dozens of candles glowing in a circle around an ancient labyrinth. The organ music was the perfect opening tune to a B horror movie about a cult in the woods. Sometimes it got so creepy that I would have to walk faster to get away from the damned thing. Apparently its beautiful.

As for the walking itself, I might as well have been doing Tai Chi. In fact, for awhile during the slow, walking meditation, I did the cat walk (the tai chi walk with your heels first). It's all about breath, about shedding current thought and connecting with the divine. How wonderful.

So around we went, five of us in this labyrinth, and after about 45 minutes you pop out, and just like that, you leave.

As I was exiting, I was caught by the shaky little lady who had been, with some difficulty, lighting candles before the ceremony. Although she's aged, she has dark hair and wore a bright purple shirt. "Is this your first time?" she asks, in the most splendid French accent I've ever heard. We proceed in conversation- and each time she says "lab-a-reenth" I am overjoyed by her Frenchness. (I realize now the the only French I have known in my life have been men- go figure. Their accents, I now realize, do not even compare to that of their female counterparts). Her name is Manu. How perfect?

and, there you have it, an hour of my summertime life. mwah.

Comfort

2008-03-14T20:45:00.000-07:00

Life has been really spectacular. Life has been comfortable, exciting, scary. Scary because for the first time in years I have settled into an area, a niche, a group of people who love me... I'm not scared of graduating; I'm ready to be done with this damned thesis. I realize, however, that I am scared this will all go away. I've been high for so long, and I remember the lows and I don't want to go back there. I couldn't take it. I think I'm a stronger person now--as if all this good has somehow built me up and prepared me for what comes next.

I suppose I'm headed back to asia. On halloween night I gave myself one year to get to Nepal- Kopan monastery for the november course. It seemed like a good direction. I've been questioning a bit lately--am I really going to go back to Asia by myself? God, this summer was witness to some truly amazing hallmarks of my life. But there was also loneliness, and the oddity of being a white woman alone in a collective, foreign society. Nepal would be different. What a blessing to be inundated in the dharma for so long.

What would I do if I stayed here? Huh.

It's the beginning of spring break here. New Orleans is perfect in the spring and I wouldn't want to be anywhere else. As friends leave, however, I am realizing, or rather feeling, for the first time the loss that I will feel in May. I know, I am always the preacher of change- flow like the river! Don't cling to the banks! But the banks have been so damned good to me this spring.

I have faith in myself and my future. I know I'm strong and capable, and I'm sure that wherever I land I will find beautiful people. I suppose now, however, I just feel tremendously grateful for all the beautiful people who love me here--and I will miss them terribly.

My City

2007-11-13T21:03:00.000-08:00

For those who didn't know, here's a taste of New Orleans. Check it, and spread it to any naysayers out there.

Empathy and the lack thereof

2007-11-06T21:36:00.001-08:00

So Jeffry Sachs came to speak at Tulane tonight. He teaches at Columbia and wrote some grand book, "The End of Poverty." He took simple numbers and showed how rich governments and/or corporations could EASILY end poverty by, say, 2025 (I forget the precise date). He is not stirring, nor passionate. He's an economist- a simple man who took simple numbers and said, "Hello! It's easy. We buy Africa mosquito nets--tada!"

I sat in that auditorium and felt like I was drowning. It should be that easy, shouldn't it? Ever since I have had a conscience I have felt empathy with people and parts of our world that have been exploited and suffer injustice and inequity. Movements to end poverty, save the rainforest, have universal healthcare, etc, etc, all stem from that same desire to help--the bleeding heart, yada yada. We have always said that the numbers are simple.

Well, it's not about numbers. According to Mr. Sachs if we each--each one of us Americans gave 5 bucks we could 'solve Africa'. Well fucking line me up Dr. But I challenge a single one of you new converts to collect this magical five dollars from anyone. Where I'm going with this...

I sat there, listening to him, in a packed crowd of Tulane students, and slowly lost a bit of faith in humanity. It breaks my heart. Two weeks ago we were petitioning for Burma's democracy movement. Never in my life have I seen people so adept at averting their eyes. Now, these same people sit and think, "yes, wonderful, five bucks to end poverty." But he doesn't mention that politics go with this- that you can't fucking drive around your gigantic SUV, wear your designer clothes, SUPPORT WAR, etc., and solve the problem with your five dollars. I don't want to be high and mighty--I am full of my own contradictions--but damnit. DAMN IT. He sits there talking about ending the war/ending poverty to the same fuckers who still support our troops (because note that the Democrats have been 'supporting our troops' forever).

For all the liberal arts bullshit we go through here people don't connect lines. They see ending poverty, the war, the world bank, etc. as different entities--and clearly positions on these don't have to line up. So here comes someone who separates them for you--you can fight poverty by not really doing anything. Drive your SUV, and yes please, continue buying diamonds from warlords in Africa, and don't forget about Sam's club, because we wouldn't want to disadvantage the sweatshop workers in China who are lifting their families our of poverty. Just give some to aid organizations.

YOU CAN'T FIX POVERTY AND SAVE THE WORLD WITH MONEY IF THE SYSTEM THE MONEY SITS IN DOESN'T WORK!

Jesus. I am conflicted, can you tell?

It just amazes me in a sad, sad way that people are acting as if this is a really new phenomenon--really excited about a movement peace activists and anti-corporatists have been doing for years. I sat there feeling that the majority of students at my school are nearly incapable of empathy (a view, might i add, which is fostered by our wonderful LLLLiberal, atomized conception of the individual). The commments in the crowd--ridiculous.

I'm being critical. I'm being a cynic. I know, but god, at some point I'm entitled, aren't I?

The end point; this school makes me loose faith in the youth and future of america. thanks tulane. thanks.

Random pictures and Burma.

2007-09-28T23:47:00.000-07:00

Me in Luang Prabang- the old capital of Lao.

The Mekong- view from Vientienne, the "capital city" of Lao.

The Perfume River- As seen from Hue City, Vietnam.

Okay- so you only get like three pictures. Most of you have facebook anyway.

I sat down to tell you about life--now, in New orleans, and developments therein. Things are hectic, good, ...

But looking through my pictures,I realize all I want to talk about now is Burma. It's common for us to see developments in international news- riots, bombs, protests, coups. Sometimes we are really interested. I follow Democracy Now all the time--but now, for the first time, I read and I watch and I am nervous. For the first time protests-military rule-the slaughter of innocent monks and nuns-- is happening someplace I've been.

I wrote a long post when i returned from Burma last fall (sometime in october). Then a few weeks later I deleted it- honestly- for fear that it would scare my mom. It scared me. That place was completely overwhelming in ways that I still have trouble putting words to. And I don't really have words now- to describe how I see pictures of the protesters and cover my mouth- feeling a little knot in my stomach- feeling immense pride- and remembering terror. There was a moment in that place when I was absolutely terrified. I don't mean like roller coaster scared- it was the combination of horror and terror and fear-- all that combined in your body. At times that night it froze me and I couldn't move. Later it propelled me to maddening speed. And I was only there for a week. I was only terrified for one night-and upon reflection--I was totally fine. No physical damage done to me.

And now I see these people on the cover of the Times. They are a beautiful people- but I wondered when I was there how it was other people didn't sense the darkness there- the thick tenseness that pervaded everything they did. That fear.

And now look at them-fighting- or rather, being brutalized while they maintain states of non-violence. The Burmese and dozens of other ethnic groups that comprise that land--they are not my people to be proud of--but I am so proud of them.

I just want to say how remarkable and strong and courageous these people are for standing up to such a dark, cold, terrifying, brutal power. Living in this place we cannot imagine it- not really. I suppose my week there is helping me to imagine, however, and...

well, i just don't know what to do, and since i am without a paper journal this will have to do for now- for my stumbling over words and frustrations.

Hopefully some SASers here in NOLA will be doing somekind of a protest drive- I think my friend said it was going to our government. UN troops? I don't know- I don't know that they've ever really worked anyway. How about this- I will figure something out and post it- god knows what a petition drive will really do- but - oh blah- help in any way you can. okay? they deserve support.

streets of rangoon/yangon

2007-08-26T21:53:00.000-07:00

so the first time i write in a month and upload pictures the great beast known as technology loses it all. *curses*

so i'll see you the next time i'm not frustrated with this machine and regain inspiration to write

FESR Rocks the House!

2007-07-27T06:29:00.000-07:00

WOW!

So- the technical end of this program has come. The group- aside from our somewhat confused "coordinator" and me have left for their respective sites of livelihood and travel.

It's hard to describe in words- without writing a short story- what we have done and experienced here working with FESR (the micro-credit org I've been interning with), what it has meant, and how friggin bad ass these people are. I've been working with four MBAs from Kellogg, three other undergrads from around the country, and a load of awesome Vietnamese people who bring down the house. We broke up into several different projects- doing something like an audit on their social return (trying to measure to good they do- the shit I always hated in economics but now see as necessary for these people to get outside funding). Other projects included a focus on their retail business loans- finding success stories and creating a pamphlet/brochure in the end, and an "integrated marketing" project that reviewed the fiscal stability of the organization. In the end, the whole team produced a well documented overview of their current loan practices for partners and potential sponsors, additional forms and suggestions to get more accurate data to track progress of loan recipients, a website (because Cary and Ron are, awkwardly phrased, both the man) and a brochure for future spenders.

Technically speaking, I have learned a tremendous amount about micro-credit operations- how they sustain themselves internally as well as how they work with their clients. I also feel quite accomplished with the work we've done. The last night some of us were cranking out this brochure and a professor came in from AIT in Bangkok- he's partnering with FESR and a Canadian NGO to work on a healthy market project- i.e.- women in the markets will get loans to help sanitize their stalls and make their practices safer for the environment (because imagine it now: people throw huge blocks of ice on the floor where animal blood and fish juice has been draining all day while it sits out...) Anyhow- the girls gave this guy a paper copy of the presentation I had helped give just earlier that day- as a comprehensive, English overview of what they do. Shit damn! How awesome! Wham bam and I already felt like we made a differece.

On a personal note- I have so much respect for the men and women who work at FESR. Living in Vietnam has definately been an experience- the closest by far I have ever been to another culture. There's good and bad, but take for example that our last day there was a ceremony- almost like graduation. They thanked us sincerely, giving us each little plaques and candies made in temples (like a blessing). There is such deep tradition here that infuses everything- even business. An older man from the board came to give his thanks- refined and dignified with every move. The girls cried. (Also- aside from the FESR crew- I worked with some amazing professionals and students from the states. I learned from and love them all- okay, or most of them).

On a fun note- the Vietnamese throw down and the last two days were a mish mash of no sleep, going out, presenting, crunch time, going out again, not sleeping again, drinking for lunch with Mr. Hai, karaoke (which i will dearly miss)...work, play, nap, work, play harder, nap- wait no time- go work or play again!

The rest of my time here will be spent doing some fairtrade stuff for a friend back home (Trani you rock) and helping out/learning more at FESR before I head out to Laos for a brief stint in the mountains.

Bicycles

2007-07-23T07:16:00.000-07:00

If you know me, you know I love bikes. So my first weekend in Hue I purchased a cheap, rickety, pumpkin colored bike with a white basket.

To highlight the character of Vietnam, I thought I should chronicle some of the creatures I have almost run over- or into- while on said bicycle:

-A female praying mantis
-Mutiple roosters
-A calf suckling its mother in the middle of the road
-Careless children
-Bamboo- which falls down in the storms
-Insence that people leave out to dry (they make inscence here with spice, glue, and water- roll it up on sticks, and set it in the street to dry in the sun)
-Piles of burning trash- because frequently people like to create little ashy bonfires in
the gutter to dispose of waste

Things that have almost run over me:

- Careless moto drivers
-Buses
-Little children whose careless parents let them drive bicycles and motos

Don't worry mom- I'm safe. It's all about traffic flow- I've got this.

much love- me

A year in the life

2007-07-15T00:26:00.000-07:00

You can read this one in chunks too...

Alrighty. So it was about one year ago that I first left the usofa. Direct flight, Chicago to Delhi. One year later all that has happened in between is finally starting to make sense, and I think I will write about it.

When I first went to India I went to study Buddhism. Program specifics being what they were, english language sessions with a Tibetan refugee, I still knew my spare time would be spent in temples, gleaming whatever knowledge or practice I could. I had and have revolted against popular American culture for quite a while. At that particular point, I also revolted against alcohol. Perhaps it was the influence of a certain abstinent man I had been seeing who had the lowest opinion of drunks, perhaps is was the undesired effect of working part time for an alcoholic, perhaps it was just my perogative. Either way, I didn't go to India to drink or go out at night. Indians don't really drink- and I pretty much only wanted to do as Indians did. I wanted to shed my culture and completely absorb another. I gave to beggars and couldn't understand the callousness of those who used the easy excuse that it's all merely a racket. I didn't believe it then and I still don't.

When I returned to the states I first noticed two things: we're fat, and we have a lot of excess infrastructure. I wanted to get rid of all of it. I fasted for a week and didn't really call anyone. I spent my week at home out in the country listening to meditation cds and preparing for semester at sea. I felt calm. Or- I felt overwhelmed by paperwork and school and money- "illusions" I hadn't had to deal with up in the mountains.

So, at my height of "fuck pop culture, fuck consumerism, etc" I climbed aboard a giant cruise ship ready to sail around the world. No fucking wonder I had so many problems. This wasn't the basic americanism I was fleeing- this was an extremely wealthy lifestyle and had never even seen. I recall a specific image: We are sailing through the Red Sea. It is the skinny part where you can see Saudi Arabi or Yemen (not sure) to your right and Djibouti to your left. Total oil rigs in this tiny stretch numbered perhaps twenty and helicopters occasionally circled. And then I looked around me. From the top deck JayZ blasted from the poolside bar as fake blondes sunbathed- next to Saudi Arabi- on our gas guzzling ocean liner. Just think about that for a minute. I sure did.

When we docked in countries I ran away. I didn't want to travel with a hoard of people in khaki shorts. I wanted immersion. I often got it. I was thoughtful, observant, reflective, and considerate of the people and places we visited. Most of all, I'm sure no surprise to anyone who knows me, I sought out religion. I went to temples in Asia, mosques in Turkey, and cathedrals in Spain. I was constantly overwhelmed.
As much as I learned from these places, however, I also had to deal with my reaction to America. Because, lets face it, I was floating on a big bowl of pop America. Thank sweet God I had some professors who understood this as well. There were, of course, many students who were amazing and deep and insightful on the ship. I would apologize to them all if I could for not being more open. There was nothing I could do. Sometimes, when we are dealing with and analyzing so very much internally, it just becomes very difficult to stay open and expend any more energy. As much as I tried I had significant trouble connected with a lot of my friends on the ship.

I realize now that I was incredibly hard on myself which caused me to be hard on others. I couldn't sit down and watch TV or a movie without thinking that it was a worthless waste of time that rotted my brain and fed me pop culture. If I drank a coke I thought about high fructose corn syrup and the evils of giant corporations. India was the culmination of several years of distancing myself from so much of what is common in our country. After India, I realize I didn't just leave my comfort zone, I had abolished it. I visited countries and wanted to learn all I could about people there. I felt I was a Buddhist, a Muslim, a Christian, a Jew, a Burmese, an Indian, a Turk. I felt an amazing connection to everything- the oversoul as Emerson best put it. But this connection, as deep as it can be, is also very abstract. In the immediate, I am not Croatian, Japanese, etc. I am an American. The longer I am here the more I am realizing this.
So that is what happened to me: I destroyed the option of falling back on American identity and threw myself at others. But you don't sink into a place in five days- and so I threw myself into the air. And I spent quite a few months twisting around up there trying to figure out how and where to land. That was a great portion of my spring- and perhaps why my Carnival season in new orleans was so outlandish and foolish and dramatic.

So now I'm in Vietnam. On this stint so far I have visited Cambodia and Thailand as well. I believe this is the longest time I've really spent out of the country. I feel good- I feel I'm learning a tremendous amount, both from other travelers, and now from the business students I'm working with here at FESR. I feel comfortable connecting to America. As we have joked here, America does not equal a dollar sign. It does not equal giant corporations or George Bush. It often does, but it doesn't always. It also means an incredibly diverse, often tolerant group of people. Granted, if I walk into Zotz in a Tulane hoodie, I don't get the best reception, but still comprably- there is no stereotypical american. We are all diverse. In Vietnam, everyone is Vietnamese. If I walk into a coffeeshop an entire crowd will point and laugh at my funny crocs- which I saw fit to draw all over in color sharpie. They are quite beautiful really, and at least I am amusing someone. But hey, in the states, people don't (typically) point and laugh because you are different. I realize I'm not in the states, so I'll deal with it, but I am appreciating our diversity more and more. Same goes for New Orleans. I like that Chris Owens can have a hat parade on easter sunday while all the Catholics sit in the cathedral. I like that you can get in a costume and be completely outrageous and its okay. I like that you can be different. I don't have to like giant corporations, or starbucks, or george bush, and I'll always be in good company with someone.
--OR, I can be in no company. The phenomenon of being alone hasn't yet hit the Vietnamese. "Only one?" "Why don't you do it together?" "Where are your friends?" I'm with the big group right now, but this is one country that just gets sort of bothersome in that regard. I am quite aware when I am alone, and I'm okay with it. Relax. Go be collective. It's good for you, but its not always good for me.

So theres the thing- just realizing I don't have to like everything about the places I visit. Just because they are other doesn't always make them better. Rest assured, do not expect me to return some kind of raging patriot- just because the US is familiar, doesn't make it better either. I feel that I have just learned to be open to ALL of it- not only other cultures, but my own. They are all beginning to blend anyway. (Remembering a group of Tibetan monks watching Men in Black II in a tiny tea shack. "Will Smith?" "Yes, yes, that's will smith") Same same but different.

So aside from occasional frustrations, I'm feeling pretty great. I look at the woman I am now compared to the young girl who took off a year ago and I am in awe. Even in the past three months- so much has happened and changed and so much the better.

For now- I am back off to the nunnery for chanting, dinner, and english lessons. I love you all. mwah.

A day in the life

2007-07-14T07:10:00.000-07:00

so in theory tomorrow's post will be a large cultural revelation i have had based on my past year of traveling, but i realized that i have not written- or wanted to write- a basic post on what happens here. So here it is, a saturday in Hue.

Wake up late- no work on Saturday's. Need to switch hotels- I will not elaborate on the frustration I have faced with program coordinators and business people, etc- but lets just say frustration level is high. I pack up to leave my favorite two ladies- Tea and Houng. Love 'em.
I go to Lotus for banana pancake breakfest. I get the bill and notice everything is higher than the menu says. "wrong menu- here is right one." Oh, thanks. So there's a foreigner menu where everything is more expensive and you show me as I'm leaving. Typical.

A few good things happened today: I took a nap in my new hotel. It has a/c. Upon waking I decided to search out the indian place in town, and had the best north indian food I've had since I was there. God bless you Omar, god bless you for cooking vegetables. Here in Hue, the Vietnamese will take most all living beings aside from people, chop them up, cover them with fish sauce and serve them with rice. "oh you don't eat meat? here, have some rice...and fish sauce." Great.

It rained, which cooled things off and was glorious. I headed out on my bike to Dieu Nghiem Pagoda I visited last weekend. It is one of the most peaceful, serene places I've found here and that is what I needed. I take the path to the right as the water/fan women yell at me from the pagoda entrance to the left. The nunnery is up ahead, and these nuns produce the most beautiful chanting I've ever experienced. It is something between native american tones, celtic melodies, and asian chants with gongs. The nuns are wonderful. They smile and greet me and I know it is sincere and kind. No one is trying to sell me a damn thing.
As they finish their rounds a nun comes to invite me to dinner. I'm still full from blessed aloo palak, but hey, a little nun invites you to dinner after a wretched few days and you don't say no.
As we eat one of the sisters speaks splendid english with me, and after I go on the ultra-slow walking meditation/english lesson with the curious sister who invited me to dinner. Even without hair, in the drap grey robes, she is intensely beautiful.

I will return tomorrow- four oclock- for that wonderful chanting and peaceful atmosphere.

I get back to town just at dusk- terrible for biking. The drivers in this country are crazy and I always try to get in by dark. I lock up the bike and head to the park by the river (parks are the place to be at night. They light them up with these funky neon lights, little men bike around selling popcorn, and benches are filled with couples holding hands- really- just holding hands). I've been practicing poi ever since Xavi hooked me up on Hat Tien in Thailand- so I break out the set and get going. I got to pick up a few moves from an Aussie in the street the other night, so there's even more to practice. It's nice at night because the people become more interested in the member of the opposite sex across the bench from them and less interested in gawking at a funny foreign girl swinging around neon balls on chain.

Then its back to the hotel, bath, internet.

And there we have it, a day in Hue. Tune in tomorrow for Laura's cultural insights and revelations (i think that will happen at least, we'll see)

hope this posts- vietnam actually blocks american blogs so it's a wierd twisted process writing and i'm never quite sure it works.

much love

2007-07-08T04:52:00.000-07:00

Okay- so I'm finally writing. I blame it on Hue being a slow city and me being vaguely bored. I must say, this is killing the mystery.

So work: We've been at it for about a week now. The organization I'm working with is called the Fund for Encouragment of Self Reliance. They started up in 2000 when some moderately wealthy Vietnamese guy in Cali decided to help out back home. Since then, they have given over 8,000 loans- the smallest amount being around 100 USD ranging up to 400 or so. With this amount of money people typically buy livestock- but the variety of trades are endless- vending, agriculture, hairstyling, etc. Over 85% of the loans are given to women because- well, we are more responsible with money. According to them, and pretty much every other microloan place out there, most men will smoke and drink away a small loan. So the women get some money and hopefully begin a business or trade that can help feed and school their children. Many of these families are living below the extreme poverty line- on under a dollar a day.

This first week I feel we (i'm here with a group) have been learning more about the specifics of the operation- how they calculate interest, how they screen candidates, how they disburse loans, etc. I hope by the end of my 6 weeks I will be able to contribute something as well. We will be working basically on some infrastructure issues- helping them figure out some numbers and organizational issues so that we can create a solid report showing their positive effects, which would hopefully result in grant money from other sources so that the project can expand.

Thanks to anyone reading this who helping me get here- there were many generous souls who sponsored this trip and I truly appreciate it.

Aside from the work- my first three weeks out were pretty great. I came early and went through Cambodia and Thailand a bit. It was a bit of a shock really being here alone for the first weekend or so, but after the initial adjustment period it went straight uphill...

Relaxing in cambodia, hammocks, coconuts, angkor wat, ta phrom, Swiss, full moon parties, more hammocks, blue moon parties, Israelis, yoga, beaches, Catalans, getting lost in the jungle, being grateful for life, Cubans, lady boys, train rides, states of disrepair, Chilleans, states of elevation, really good curry bowls, fruit shakes, rat, Brits, POI POI POI!, dancing, and the list goes on...

But for now my "boss" just spotted me and it's group meeting time. Much love.

Benn King are you there????

2007-06-20T23:05:00.000-07:00

This post is pretty much soley for Benn whose email address I have misplaced. I love you and have been trying to write- I keep sort of guessing combinations but i dont think I'm getting them right. Anyhow, I hope you check this and write me back at lpavicev@tulane.edu so I can finally send you letters.

As for the rest of you blokes I dont think I'm blogging so much on this trip- i might start later.

much love!

Western Backpack

2007-05-15T11:49:00.000-07:00

So I suppose it's time to start this puppy back up.

May 15th- and on June 6th I hop aboard a flight (or more like 4 flights to be precise) to Saigon/Ho Chi Mihn City. I'll have three+ weeks of travel time before heading to Hue where I'll be doing an internship with CoVN, an organization which gives small, microcredit loans to women to help start their own businesses. I believe we'll be helping with business plans, etc. There is also a lot they do with a large community farm out of town; i.e., the women get a small loan to rent part of this land which they can then farm and use to sell produce at local markets. For those unfamiliar with microcredit it is, to my knowledge, one of the most effective methods for helping those in the third world get out of poverty. Loans go to women, who, unlike men, take care of their families and don't squander the money. It is also very grassroots and avoids the bigtimers- IMF, USAID, etc., who tend to care about politics and profit and not actually help many people. Pretty much, I would like to spend a portion of my life doing work like this and I find it telling and promising that this internship came my way.

I applied for this big grant to go to India, had some misgivings, didn't get it...ended up getting a grant from my department to do an unpaid internship-and landing this internship--all in like 3 days. (Did I mention things have been really great here the past month? Yeah.)

So I'll work with this project in Hue for 6 weeks starting in July and then have another week and a half or so to travel.

Expected destinations: Cambodia to angkor wat and phnom phen, Thailand to Bangkok to see Kim and an some islands perhaps, a nunnery in Vietnam whose name and location escape me, but when planning a trip long ago (2 months) they were very open to having me come visit and they speak english, down to the Mekong to see my friend Yom from SAS, and up to Sapa- perhaps the highlight in my mind- it is in the "Tokinese Alps" and full of nomadic mountain tribes.

What's crazy is that this is the trip I planned all along- wanting to go back to Vietnam, look at their economy for my thesis- comparing the industrialized south with the tribes in the north- ended up taking Vietnamese this semester specifically to go back...
And now, in a very roundabout way, it all happened.

So- must go now- but stay tuned for what will be my longest stint in another country (and not on a ship).

Hooah.

Sound Bites

2007-05-08T22:56:00.000-07:00

those juicy conversation clips overheard while supposedly working, and needing to work, on a final paper...

that boy-the stupid one who first entered the library during the second week of finals on what i will assume is his second or third year- that boy who was so confused about the printers and felt the need to talk loudly on his damned cell phone- that boy just began to sell an ounce on said phone while traipsing through the library lobby on his way out

It's Getting Better Everyday

2007-04-28T17:38:00.000-07:00

It's gettin better everyday.

:)

Lifeforce ceremony- thanks Karma! I needed that.
A's.
Boys.
Summer grants that require no applications. Thanks Dr. H.
Travel.
Beer.
New friends, old friends.
Jazzfest.
Nola in the Spring and Jasmine in my hair...no, not the rice.

SAS kids? I love you all. And it feels damn good to be able to say that sincerely.

Gettin better everyday.

Getting Hit by Cars

2007-04-19T13:02:00.000-07:00

So in the last four months I have been hit by cars...twice, while riding my bicycle.

The first time I probably could I have died. I attributed my astonishing survival and impecable condition (minus a bit of road rash, swollen ankle, and stiff neck) to angels. Velvet, my friend the fortune teller, was right when she told me not to worry; I had angels watching me. Turns out that night my grandmother was saying her evening prayers for me as well. And so I took it to mean that my life was not finished, that I had a purpose here I had yet to fulfill. Didn't quite matter that I had no clue what that was--something was out there for me to do. Yet when I really thought about it, the ideal of dying, well, it wasn't that..moving. I would just be like everyone else who dies. People are dying all the time you know. We just don't think about it, and we don't really think how totally insignificant our own deaths will be. If I had died, family and friends would have been sad, etc., but in the grander scheme of things nothing would change.

So today, riding to work down my favorite street, past that little loopy park on Colliseum. A car stops to let me by, and another car thinks he stops for her to turn. Crash boom. And my thought as I watch the pavement is "not again." Haven't I been careful? I've been biking around like a goddamned old lady, waiting forever for cars to pass, taking side roads with less traffic, and AGAIN I fuking get smashed. It was minor, and I laughed as people told me not to move. "oh," i thought, "if you only knew." A few scraps and a twisted tire. We got it all sorted out in an hour- new spokes and a ride to work. I'll now have matching scars on my elbows--one from each wreck.
And what relfection do I have now? What gives? I thought of all things I could at least ride a bicycle, but I am sort of questioning my capabilites to do anything. School has seemed harder as well. While everyone else was excelling at soccer, gymnastics, you name it, I could always breeze through school like nothing. So if I'm having trouble with that, what can I actually do? I've just been feeling very unproductive. I want a skill.

I didn't get that grant to go to asia, and I got hit again by a car. Something is going on. The universe is trying to tell me something and I'm just too thick to get it. Maybe it's trying to tell me I'm a shitty cyclist. Maybe I think too much and it complicates my head. Maybe I should get back to work now before I get fired...

mwah.

Why do you hate America?

2007-03-07T17:42:00.000-08:00

my friend asks as i plot the next adventure.

I've come to terms with quite a few things in the past months. Living in a big apartment by my lonesome with no tv and no internet forces you to analyze stuff it's usually easy to avoid. And so now it is spring cleaning. Mentally and emotionally I'm back on track. No answers, really, but I remember my purpose. Granted I don't know how important it is or how it came about, but I stopped worrying about that. It feels great. So I'm doomed to be shoved around by the North wind- wandering wandering, but with a purpose.

Aside from my endless desire to flee the country- New Orleans has been wonderful. Mardi gras was spell of unexpected joy, doused with some anger- but it was positive. Good to get it out. mom's ball, drum circles, dancing and parading for 16 hours straight... yes yes. Love this city.

You know what that means? Time to leave and run away to asia!

Whee!!!!!!!!!

much love, much much pure love

well well

2007-02-12T19:58:00.000-08:00

so.... perhaps you can tell by the near lack of writing since the end of the trip that the processing period has been rather empty...like, it hasn't really happened.

all sorts of wierd is going on, and will likely increase tremendously in the next weekend, but, hmm, i have hope

so- things are things
There is no cure for hot and cold.
and that is what i leave you with.
There is no cure for hot and cold.

florida

2006-12-09T00:42:00.000-08:00

Florida. “Welcome home” they say at the port terminal. Really? welcome home.

I am overwhelmed and drowning. I don’t know that I can adequately describe how confusing everything is. I was in India for six weeks- home for maybe one and a half- and then back out. I haven’t been here an extended period since June. What is home?

So many people left the ship overjoyed. “It was the experience of a lifetime. I totally recommend it.” “Best time of my life.” “The ship was amazing.”
I remember a trip with a friend in Istanbul; I say she is an amazing and beautiful person. She replies, “Really? How do you know? I can’t see good now. I can see beauty, yes, but not good or bad.”
I’ve heard a lot of people describing the world as their playground.

I can’t say I didn’t have an amazing time- amazing in the sense of- well, I was amazed. But that doesn’t always mean fun. I wouldn’t want to leave this trip like, “Whee!!!! Fuck yeah I went crazy everywhere and had a blast.” Of course I had a great time many places, but the entire time I’ve been thinking-analyzing-reflecting. I think my eyes have been open for a while- but this trip did something more. Opened my heart? My energy? Coming ‘home’ is one of the most painful things I’ve ever done. Sorry to the rents. Aside from that, I don’t feel I have a home. The house is where my parents live, but I couldn’t move in there. Not now, not after everything. New Orleans is a home- unless nature decides to bury her in centuries of human neglect and inevitable change. On the flip side, I could go anywhere. I feel I could be dropped anywhere and survive. How is it I feel this way about the world, and not here?

End point: I have to process.

Traveling, looking around. So much beauty, but so much pain. I feel like I could do something- that inevitable feeling, as spiderman says, that with great power comes great responsibility. I don’t want to say that the world is my playground- as if I’m going to run around and tear shit up. The world is not here purely for my enjoyment. Of course, I will enjoy it. I will love it and roll in it and cry for it- but there needs to be a sense of care. I am compelled.

Let’s see where I am after a week of thought and meditation, shall we?

All these pictures came from Burma. Reflecting on my trip- my best pictures have come from Burma. Complete beauty. I felt-terrible at times-when I was there. I saw the pain. Looking back, I see the beauty. I wonder what I would find if I returned.

the journey

2006-12-09T00:41:00.000-08:00

Dec. 4th/5th/why be a slave to time?

Learning. Someone shared the tale of a recovering druggie at home- this friend told him before he came on this voyage to learn, learn, learn. Not to have fun- to learn. Another girl shares her bout with clinical depression. She has learned again to love life, but realizes the value of walking through the dark. I see a lot of dark sometimes on this boat—but like I used to tell a friend, think of how much more powerful I will be at the end.

This trip has helped me to find my voice. I have realized I don’t know many things, but found strength to speak out about the things I do. I have questioned pretty much everything.

You know, this was planned out as a journal- a chronicle of my adventures to fill in all the folks back home. But I think I would bore you with a mere list- it wouldn’t do justice to my experience or your mental depth. Hope you don’t mind.

Pictures to come (in maybe a few weeks J )

Espana

2006-12-09T00:39:00.000-08:00

LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!! As chris Langley used to say: rawr!

What have I learned? What has been the purpose of all this? Fun is a transitory and somewhat shallow emotion- what exceeded that? Croatia offered much time for contemplation- a quiet, wintry land. Spain- craziness. I realize once again that there are niches all over the world that I would love.

There is both exhilaration and fear that accompanies the realization: I can go anywhere and survive. I am a tiny person in a huge world. Everything is bigger than me and yet I am a part of it all.

I have so very much to learn, as do we all. Traveling simply increases the awareness of my own empty mind. Lord do I try to fill it, but the world is far too large. And so I have worked on my heart- keep it open, keep it full. Has it worked? I hope. Hope.

So for a while, Bowie has graced my mind: chchchchanges..turn and face the strange, chchchanges, pretty soon now your gonna get older, time may change me, but I can’t change time

Notes to self (and you): listen to more rage against the machine
Learn to tag
Dance
Don’t Worry, Be Happy

I’m so glad I’m not Milagro- so glad to be me.

Note to others: stop listening to others when they are negative. If someone tells you you can’t do something- it’s only impossible in their fearful reality, and that is an illusion. Ignore them to the fullest and find your own path. You are all birds, and you are free.

To catch up:

Croatia- swimming, islands, rock, wine, cheese, climbing

Spain- major art museums of Madrid- the Prado and Reina Sofia, complete lack of sleep, gitanos, bar fights (not me not me!), playgrounds, pubs clubs and discos, calimocho, rage, dreadlocks, rastas, lights, more gitanos!!!, flamenco, big skirts and tight pants, white suits, more wine, cathedrals of epic proportions, postcards, pigeons, milagro, and uh- trains? –oh, socialism too, god bless

dude.

2006-11-17T09:17:00.000-08:00

so im coming in from island hopping in the adriatic- ya know, no biggie,- and i look to the left of the ferry. What do i see? THE MOTHER FUCKING GREENPEACE SHIP!!!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? IVE BEEN DREAMING OF THIS SHIP AND STALKING GREENPEACE SINCE LIKE JUNIOR HIGH, AND NOW ITS RIGHT OUTSIDE MY WINDOW!!!!!!! AHHHHHH!!!!
I hailed the captain and climbed aboard, and am headed back tomorrow for open ship time.

also- i went swimming for the first time ever! thanks to anyone who ever tried to teach me, but i guess all i needed was the salty adriatic sea, some wine, and some naked friends- whee!

much love

İstanbul rocks the casbah.

2006-11-10T10:48:00.000-08:00

yeah! underground-euro-muslım-style-flaır-taste-musıc musıc musıc- brothels (boo)- magıc-m&ms-hassan- oh laura

sexıest people i,ve ever seen. hassan- ,looks lıke orlando bloom?, why aren,t ı wıth him now- because ı,m hangıng wıth a totally amazıng couple of artısts and freethınkers and soon theır frıends. They,ve taken me ın- offered to help me stay here ıf ı ever wanted to- to fınd a place and a job. Emre ıs an artıst- ozlem a beautıful spırıt of knowledge.

ı can tell thıs place has so much to come back to - the underground musıc scene- ---as we drıve by ,that ıs where the gypsıes lıve- ın the summer they dance all nıght., oh my oh my

party time

EGYPT

2006-11-04T09:00:00.000-08:00

spiritual-pyramids-bedouin people-MUSIC-sheesha-mint-dance-veils-beauty-stillness-calm-meditative-transforming-spectacular

climbing around the dessert

chilling with a healer who has hosted the Grateful Dead- learning about the flower of life and the scent of chakras

drinking enough coffee and smoking enough sheesha that I almost can't eat for the tummy ache

learning so much about my self and my path that my life will never be the same...

more to come in turkey

Nutmeg, chocolate, and the Middle East

2006-10-30T15:18:00.000-08:00

So- the first two really just refer to the best hot chocolate I’ve ever had- which I packed full of fresh, not-ground nutmeg and cinnamon from Kerala. Whoot.

The Middle East: We’re a few hours from our port, and tomorrow morning I’ll be headed toward Cairo. Holy shit. I feel magnetism toward this place. I’m quite unsure as to its source, but I’m really attracted to the middle east. I have all these constructs in my head- what an Egyptian marketplace will look like, how the pyramids will make me feel, and an idealized version I’m sure of Bedouins with gorgeous rugs and tents camping in the desert- and I’m excited to see my reaction to the realities of all these things.

I talked to the interport student about the possibility of camping with Bedouins—his response: “But your hands are too small. How will you drive the camel? It will be very hard-you need big hands.”

orielly, hate speech, and the middle east

2006-10-30T15:17:00.000-08:00

We watched a documentary today in global media- how the US views Arabs, how we and others took Palestinian land, and why we support Israel.

It is hard for me to watch clips of Bill OReiley and FOX news. I don’t watch news television at home, unless it’s Democracy Now, and I don’t hang out with conservatives. To see the hate, the utter hate and evil that comes out of this man’s mouth is nothing short of repulsive to me. Then that repulsion turns to sadness, because I truly hate to think that any portion of the American public actually feels that way: that Arabs are all evil, that Islam hates freedom, and that all those “rats” deserve death.

I’m also processing the fact that I am incredibly drawn to Islamic culture and its peoples. When I think logically about this- I can’t relate to Islam at all. TOTAL submission to God? Not quite me. But I truly think I’ve come to this as a reaction to what has been submitted by my culture. To call Arabs “haters of freedom”, evil, and terrorists- well- these are all qualities I would attribute to the United States. What is terror? Is it bombing innocent civilians in the night to safeguard your economic interests? Is it attacking a people whose culture you find to be an assault on your God and your way of life? Couldn’t that last one be attributed to both sides in this ‘battle’?

Anyhow- I guess what I wanted to say is that 1) I’m shocked, deeply saddened, and disgusted with the way our mass media portrays the world, and 2) That I’m truly hoping to experience Middle Eastern culture in Egypt and Turkey-almost as a way of refuting the above. I want to find beautiful, kind people and take that hope to all the haters and say “look now! You’ve watched news but I’ve been there so let go of your damned animosity.”

I guess we’ll see what happens soon enough.

Eureka!

2006-10-30T15:15:00.000-08:00

Ladies and gents- eudemonia is closing in (who knows when? Not I). Point is- it’s not so damn distant anymore. Social awkwardness is waning. Reiki master Amei hooked me up on that one. Slowly got pumped through the day- great convo with a professor- (hey! Surprise!! This ship is like a bubble of the American culture I flee in daily life- and I’m not the only one who realizes it. Finally. Satisfaction. Take that McGagger.) Continuing through the night- great yoga + Tibetan prayer bowls + my new outlook = such amazing vibrations my hands were warm when I finished using them (with meditation bowls of course- if you’ve never seen them check it out- ya gotta).

And I had the most amazing taste of ginger tea today. Think hot, sweet, tang, spice, warm…

Off to finish the realignment. Mwah!!!

SASafras

2006-10-18T23:03:00.000-07:00

wow- so apparently uploading photos is REALLY SLOW and difficult on this computer- and now I'm out of time.

This was a little boy in Can Tho Vietnam, in the Mekong Delta. We played with lots of them for a while in their neighborhood. Note the black river behind him.

Return to India

2006-10-18T01:28:00.000-07:00

Wow.

I needed to have fun. I couldn't follow Burma with more pain- so off we went. Me + two cool dudes- headed to Kerala.

I used to list off India- color, smoke, dirt--Rosemary would always say spice and I never thought why. Well wow.

Day one we flew into Cochin. Kerala is the richest state in India. No beggars, few hindus- christians, muslims, and hell- a jew town (even called Jew Town). We went around with Babu who took us to see the Chinese fishing nets amongst other things. Think of hugely elegant bamboo nets lowered in and out of the water via a pulley system.

Day two- on to Kumily. Town in the cardamom hills of South India- spice plantations- ginger, coffee, lemongrass, cinnamon, cloves...the scents filled the air everywhere. We did a short day hike in the Periyar Wildlife Refuge (tigers and elephants--neither of which we saw in the wild...). Later toured a spice plantation and rode an elephant. Beautiful people, beautiful children, beautiful land. Last night we slept in a tree house.

It was such a contrast to see that side of India. Rich, christian, beautiful. No cows in the street, no garbage in the gutters, no chai shops on the sidewalk. This country truly is everything.

But shabam- this morning we pulled into Madurai. It's hot- it's crowded- it's a city in India. Now I remember. Hello? Madam? Where are you going?

I still love it. Love hate.

Burma Pre-Port

2006-10-18T01:23:00.000-07:00

Burma: Where the Buddha smiles on a monsoon of color.

Myanmar: Where a harsh military junta slays and tortures thousands of indigenous peoples every year; where est. 20,000 girls from hill tribe are SOLD to pimps in Thailand who will sell their bodies as “virgins” hundreds of times over- The girls are told they’re going to wash dishes.

These are the same country- the ethnically heterogeneous array of tribal peoples- ear and neck stretchers- lake peoples- monks- and the draconian government that crams it all together.

We are pulling up on this country now- the literal meaning of sea level has been made visually clear as we pass vast stretches of green, floating homes of natural fibers, and small boats whose owner’s must gaze at us in awe: “What on earth is that giant- moving so fast and soo very huge.”

Entering this river delta I find one of the most unique landscapes I could imagine. This morning the river was green- a splendid jade and the wake we turned up was brown- shallow river water. As the ship pulls in, tiny villages and water buffalo can be seen close by. In the distance: gold. For an impoverished nation, GOLD gilded pagodas dot the landscape with surprising frequency. The Schwedagon can be seen already from the ship- along with perhaps five others. We haven’t even approached the city yet.

Supposedly, these will be the most kindhearted amazing people we encounter. I have been drawn to this place since my early youth. Clothes tag: Made in Burma. Where the hell is that? Oh- and then the two page spread of Pagan. Well I’m headed there now. Tomorrow, perhaps, I’ll be on a plane. (This likely won’t make it to post until post- Burma, but I’ll write it now).

HK, Vietnam Part I

2006-09-29T05:31:00.000-07:00

WOW WOW WOW!!!

So i thought HK rocked my world- which it totally did- but Vietnam- wow!!!

Last day HK---um---oh- park, market, turquoise ass-length wig, muslims, tai chi, rosemary, tsing tao, 7 eleven...

Okay, nam. Started in the worst mood- sprung into the best. THE PEOPLE HERE ARE AMAZING!!!! Polite, beautiful, fans of coffee, colorful, boat people, etc...

Day one- wandering, war museum, crazy night club. It is so amazing to see this place through my fresh eyes and yet know what it meant to so many people. I'm in the Mekong Delta now and I can't imagine fighting a war in a worse place. Think mud, poison, brush, everywhere. I can't really believe the nation has changed so much in so little time. Even hearing I'm from the US, they are still so amazing.

Last night I met Yom- I am the first foreigner he has ever talked to, but that night we went out with a motor cycle gang of six vietnamese + me and molly. He brought his english professors kids- a 9 and 13 year old- and the plumpest vietnamese kids I've seen at that.

I have just met so many amazing people by biking around this nation- they are interested. Hello! Who is this girl? She's big- but she's dressed like and Indian. Her shoes!?! Hello! The energy is so positive.

Also- today I saw an angel. There is little doubt in my mind she is an enlightened being. Clad in yellow, I looked up to see her in a fish market- barefoot- standing and starting straight at me. She approached some women who merely gave her the food she pointed to. A nun? She took my breath away.

much love from Can Tho....

Hong Kong

2006-09-23T12:42:00.000-07:00

Ahoy! Have I even written about Japan? No? Well fast forward.

HONK KONG.

It could take days…ayechiwawa. So we missed docking in China because of a typhoon. I’d say 90 percent of the boat went into the mainland anyhow, but not me. No worries- free Tibet eh?

HK day one: alleyways, flowers, meeting dozens of interesting people with Forest, getting in a random lady’s junk(small boat house), HK Park and aviary, not seeing SAS people for a long time, Victoria’s Peak for sunset and night time lights, the walk down, drinking health tonic, going far too far on the bus b/c we were too tired to walk- then having to walk twice as far to get back, sleeping….best meditation of my life

HK day two: big ass Buddha- more like a theme park however, nature, dim sum, bus, looking forever for restaurants, foot massage, shoddy hostel

HK day three: hiking to top of Lantau Peak- highest on the island w/ views of all the islands around, getting sunburned, the camera breaking, finding my water bottle again, getting down to a random beach town, scoring a suit and sarong for cheap, playing in the beach at sunset, ferry back, irish pub hopping and meeting random Brits, seeing everyone again

HK day four: well that will have to wait for tomorrow.

Japan was splendid. Very modern, very fashionable, very full of ancient and remarkable temples and wildlife. Also had-literally- the very best meal of my life. (Unagi, noodle soup, pickled vegetable, and matcha/bean dessert- with green tea of course)

Jolly Shandy!!!

Oahu and malaria meds

2006-09-04T00:12:00.000-07:00

Heads up kids. It’s A3 on ship- that’s September who knows for you.

Hawaii: solamente una dia!! Que triste.

The plan to go hang gliding falls through night one: the wind is wrong. Plans switch to run around the island with Amy, Halle, and others and try to find a hiking spot via sticking our thumbs out on the road. About twenty minutes before docking: Rebecca informs me there is room on the skydiving ran. Okay! So we head there- a van stuffed with 17 kids who feel the need to scream and throw out the rock sign, peace sign, or for some-the shocker, every few minutes as if we are already in the air. The wait time is insane. Get there around nine- fly up in the plane around one- need to wait for the shuttle and don’t get back to the ship until around 4.

The jump: So I’m suited up w/ Ashi. We’re in the plane with three other pairs- the plane door stays open sometimes so our ears adjust. Five more minutes. One more mile. They start jumping and I’m the last. I come up to the edge- but my arms are wrapped around myself so that in effect, I don’t jump at all, but rather am shoved along by my instructor. We rock back one, two, and three times we’re out. Instinct closed my ears for the first second as we fell and tumbled out. The free fall lasts about a minute and was honestly much scarier than I imagined. The ride up was spectacular- I was pumped- but when you get to that door- it’s like ‘oh shit’. On the way up I said- ‘no worries- don’t worry laura- you’re a bird’- and I know I am. Regardless, being at that doorway- the wind starts to hit your face- oh god. You’re falling so fast- I think around 120 mph- and it’s hard to breathe. After a bit though, the shoot opens and you’re floating- not falling- floating/soaring. I told Ashi to get me to a cloud. We hovered there for about a minute, with the crystal blue water beneath us and the low, lush mountains of Oahu if front of that. It wasn’t that we went into the cloud, but we hovered there while it moved toward us. Amazing. “Okay- now touch your cloud!!!” Whee!! I put my arms out and thought of all the times I would pretend to be a plane or a bird when on land/as a kid. You know- when you hold them out and go “vroom!!!” -Except I got to do it in the clouds.

That night was also pretty fun- didn’t get to the beach b/c we were trying to book tickets for our trip in China. Ended up having some drinks outside the boat with one of my professors (can’t take liquor onboard).

All in all, good times for a day.

Also – I’ve determined one highly avoidable cause of major problems in my traveling career: antimalarials. Doxycycline screwed me up, so the doc gives me a lariam. I’m waking up all night, and realized today that I’ve been feeling randomly really bummed out- which is insane!!!! And what does lariam do? Makes you depressed and gives you night terrors. Note to fellow travelers: wear bug spray, sack the drugs. Why make your body mad sick when it isn’t?

Pictures later? Maybe post-Japan.

At sea

2006-09-01T17:00:00.000-07:00

Greetings from a big boat- or ship as they will have me call it. This is day what? It’s A2 for classes- and that’s about all I know. The ship itself is quite an unexpected experience. It is perhaps the most opulent place I will ever live; amazingly kind Philippino people make our beds, fold our stray clothes, and bring us coffee and tea at every meal. Everyone I talk to feels rather out of place being served- I know they get paid well and such- but it is so incredibly odd.

My chica Amy also brought up the awesome point that while we are on the ocean, we’re still so removed. This ship is huge- nine stories maybe- and from the top deck you are so far away. Last night the ocean was amazing. The whole experience of being out here perfectly demonstrates the limits of language; I have no words for the color of the ocean. I can’t really describe how the moonlight reflects on that vast body of water, hitting only parts that aren’t obscured by clouds and sending a shimmer through the waves. I can’t do it justice. It is ghostly- my image last night made me recall the scene in Interview with the Vampire: Claudia and Louie are sailing to Europe and around, and as the pass sea through sea, Claudia does sketches of the ocean. They are dark, there is moon, clouds, and depth- and most importantly a type of fog. There is a feeling in that scene- I’ve caught it before on the river in New Orleans- seeing how the lights from the bridge reflect down and make that area slightly different from all the others. So that is how I feel- like I’m in some sort of painting, and as if I should describe everything in older English like novels I’ve read.
To return to the far away point, however, even though the ocean is all around and we can’t see land, we’re still not in it. Imagine being in a schooner or smaller vessel- the ocean would own you. You would feel that vastness and be lost in it. We can try to reach it from up here, but it’s hard.

The people on the boat are pretty sweet. I was nervous about being lost in a maze of rich people – and rich isn’t the right word—but if you know me maybe you know what I’m talking about. And they are here, but so are others.

Hawaii is next (tomorrow)!! Whee.

politics, thoughts on india, final pics

2006-08-21T08:05:00.000-07:00

Howdy folks. So today we'll begin with a short political rant, move on to my reflective views on the India experience, and finish off with some more dazzling pictures. Ready? Okay.

So what is up with middle of the way America? I pick up a copy of The Nation today- one of my old favorites that left me along with mail service in New Orleans- and I read about the "New College Left". It recounts the tail of extensive right wing funding, think tanks, etc. and the rise of the right on college campuses. I remember having these convos w/ a friend in New Orleans: when the old hippie can't take care of himself and is still yelling and angry, but the old conservative seems to be doing pretty well, well no shit people would rather be the conservative. Anyhow- the article went on to say how some Left "Campus Progress" national organization has started and gives funding to campus groups. My first reaction: "Sweet! I could start up a paper at Tulane when I get back, because God knows they don't give funding to poli organizations, and the few times I've picked up the Hullaballo I've ending up reading some of the most racist, slanted bullshit- not as a letter sent in- but as an article published.
However, upon further reading, I find that the organization is obviously wary of supporting anything too left, which could get it into trouble. The article also talks about some Ivy groups starting up- classy Dems that don't yell their rhetoric but voice it in suits with coctails. Politicians.

Laura's views: What the fuck mate? Why? Because yesterday's left is today's too left, and yesterday's middle man is today's awkward liberal. Okay- you don't want to be yelling on the quad, etc. Neither do I to be honest- it puts you in an awkward and open position. I just find in the past few months- and lets not lie- after certain group conversations in India- that I'm sick of hearing hollow words. I'm sick of a generation that listens to the Dead, does their parent's drugs (and more), reads about Leary, talks the talk, and then returns to the life that their wealthy parents carved for them. Hollow words my friends. It's as if 'hey, our parents didn't change anything, lets take the best they have to give us and leave the sweat and tears.' Now I realize I'm not out in the street protesting anything, etc.- but I think I do my part to not contribute. I don't run around saying "No Logo!!!" and cover myself in Nike; I don't feign to support the environment and drive and SUV five blocks to school b/c my skinny blond ass can't manage a bicycle. I try to not support a world system I don't agree with and hope that somehow little actions reach others.
The other frustration (highlighted by this wonderful Leibermann campaign) is that I'm sick of Repubocrats. Now listen, I was raised a good Dem, but when for the past four years all I hear are people come out who support the war- or don't "support" it but still want to fund it- wtf? You know- Bush didn't technically win that election, but the way everyone acts, you would think we have to duck and cover because the neocons are everywhere. They're not. They are just better organized b/c they don't keep muddling up their message by scooting it farther left.

So that turned into a long rant. But afterall, I understand when people want non-partisan politics. But shouldn't there be a point when people (liberals) say, "yes Mr. Republican, come to my meeting, hold my hand. I respect you as an intelligent person with your own history, your own culture and norms, and therefore your own views. When I say work together, however, I WILL NOT swallow and neglect my own MORALITY and opinions so that I can eat your corporate sponsored shit in return for your approval." come on america. You can have cooperation and still have different ideals- non partisan doesn't mean republican.

Okay okay, done with politics for now......India!!! (Which will likely lead to politics)

My last real message from that distant land was after an intense sickness in Varanasi/Benares. How far away. Since I've returned, people have asked if I feel like a changed person. Yes I do, but mainly because of the reflection time I've had since I got home. My first few hours back in the states were spent at Ohare International Airport waiting for the currency changer to open up. My first real culture shock: We are really fat. Not that the fat people are so huge, but that pretty much everyone is on the big side. Next reaction: gas in Chitown was 3.60ish a gallon. shit son.

I came home and I wanted to clean out, clear up, and think about everything that had happened. I didn't want to come back to the states and think "I'm so grateful to be home. I'm so grateful to be in a safer place with clean food, etc. Let me go grab a sandwich and a frappe and walk the streets at night." I was resentful even before I left to the people who said "Oh India- you'll get home and kiss the ground you walk on". So I didn't. I fasted for about a week, sat on my ass at home listening to music, doing a little yoga, being outside, and-thinking I suppose.

One of the most important things, I think/i feel, is just not to forget. The poverty in India is striking, but you get used to it when you're there. You realize there is a society India, a middle India, and a poor as shit India, and they just don't mingle. From the society view, how could you live a life of comfort and walk into a beggar village and not feel wretched? You couldn't- neither did we. But I don't just want to come back here and forget them. I try to live a life that doesn't harm other people- that doesn't support coporations or ideals that will harm others. I'm not saying I succeed, and I'm sure I fail quite often, but the motivation is there and at least I'm trying.

Spiritually, there is also the concept of being connected to those people and having compassion for them. Some could say that just thinking things -"I wish those poor people in India to be happy" -doesn't do jack, but my meditation course taught me a lot. When Buddhists meditate analytically there is the hope that ideals in our minds can be focused on our hearts- that what we logically know will become something we logically feel. Being around monks and nuns ( and Tibetans for that matter) in North India was hugely powerful; these people have such striking compassion and good will for those around them. They realize everyone is in this painful cycle, so regardless of where we are, we should be kind. We don't know the karma of that beggar we just ignored, and we don't know our own. Some day the tables could be turned, and you could be depending on someone's kindness as well.

I also worked on strengthening my equanimity while I was there (treating everyone the same). I struggle a lot with trying not to judge people so directly opposed to my beliefs. ex- People who support the war. How the hell do I respect someone who supports hate-mongering money politics. How do I relate to people who rape the earth and then spit on her? The answer (according to a nun) - "Hey- they are just people too. And who is to say I have all the answers. I have my flaws. I'm learning -they're learning, but we're all in this cycle together."

Leading to...Capstone India thoughts: A lot of my poltical and moral beliefs were strengthened- but strengthened in different ways. If my ideals are a kickboxer- I don't want them to knock out my enemy. Rather, I'd like them to be strong enough to get dropkicked and not fall down.
I felt incredibly humbled there. Seeing life- real life- so stark and all around you- that's what India is. People live on the street- sleep, shit, eat on the street. Why? Hey- they're poor, we're all human, "so what's the problem?" It's real life in your face. Varanasi was a key example of that- seeing the stark constrast between Hindus and Muslims there (and remembering how we came from a hotel lobby in Delhi filled with Christian Missionaries- I also remember thinking- why don't you give the people some of the food you hide in that pot belly under your polo shirt and keep your damn Bible). Anyhow- you just realize how small you are.

Everyone of those billion people (plus people everywhere) are living and struggling and have their own hopes, dreams, pains, and joys. Who am I to think mine are so much more important? Honestly? We are all human, and that right there deserves respect. Regardless of beliefs, we all suffer in this life and are all looking for something- for some type of joy.

So those are the lessons I'm working on and the thoughts I'm developing post-India. --trying to respect and be open to everyone, gaining humility, cultivating compassion
(This doesn't mean there wont be more political rants in the future, but hey, i'm only human.)

I'm sure you'll get more of this later- but now pictures!!! (Whee!!) I think my blog is angry at the size of this post and not taking more pics, so those will go up later. for now...

So these three are at the Taj- the second is with my Didi/varanasi buddy Kathleen- and the last is one of the citadels by the river right at sunset.

pictures!!!

2006-08-20T12:23:00.000-07:00

Dear god did I just post a thousand pictures (or ten- but it felt like forever). At the end of each post with pictures I added notes to explain them, which was easier than trying to make captions.

More to come tomorrow. mwah!

2006-08-14T10:43:00.000-07:00

I'm home- alive and well and full of ideas.

Also- there is sadly no internet at my house, so bloggalicious communications will be limited. My thoughts on India -in capstone matter- aren't quite ready for publication, so you will have to await them anxiously.

much love- me

I finally got a picture to post. Whee!!! This is from the top of Triune- which is the most beautiful place I've ever been.

getting sick in Varanasi

2006-08-03T22:52:00.000-07:00

So yesterday/last night was maybe the sickest (or second sickest after food poisoning in New orleans) that I have ever been. To detail the sickness would be pretty terrible- so i will spare you. Regardless, I was lying in bed with a fever, and i was sort of numb, really incoherent, and without balance or any energy. It was sort of scary- but I feel much better now. (It was sort of like when I got sick in Mcleod- the first day was terrible but after that it was fine.) Then- in my scared, confused state, I started thinking about how distraught (sp?) my mother would be if something happened to me. Then I thought about all my friends back home, and I much I really truly love all of you. So I needed to put that into words- and I hope in our interactions i make it obvious that I really love you, but if I ever seem cranky or impatient, just know that i have flaws too, but - yeah- i love you all.

Aside from that, India is really a love/hate relationship. Here in Varanasi- the temples are great, the Ganges river sends a great breeze into the city, and fantastical pilgrims are commonplace- complete with intricate face paint, massive dreds, and colorful uniforms of orange and red. There is also the flip side- this is a place where people come to die (to gain instant enlightenment). I feel that all that energy - that sickness- really infects the place.
And then of course- there is the desparation. Kathleen was saying that after she left Africa, she felt so connected to the people there, and now when she sees a Ghanain back home, she just wants to hold their hand and talk to them. She wondered if she would feel that way about Indians. So then I wondered...I feel that I love the place and parts of the culture- but there is definately a rift between me and the people because I have never been that desparate. Part of india really saps your energy- "buy me, take my rickshaw, buy me, special for you- first customer of the day, hello? do you remember me?" No, I don't fucking remember you because I don't know you, you don't know me, and you just want to harrass me on the street. "Where are you from?How long are you in India? Where are you staying? What's your name? Are you married?" multiply this by a thousand and it's somewhere close to how many times I've had to answer these questions. I feel it's worse here- withtheyoung boys that fucking surround you. "Where do you need to go? internet- here!!!! NO THIS WAY!!! Hotel? THIS ONE!! HERE= LEFT!!!" I don't understand what they want- they can't get commission from an internet cafe, and if they just want the company of a westerner- well, usually i want to trip them- or really just get away from them. Honestly, I can read, I know where i'm going.

Then i have to stop and think- these kids were raised in a setting i can't imagine. If i was that poor, you're damn straight I would beg for money, or try to sell you postcards, or bindis, or shine your plastic shoes. I would also be reallyamazed- in a country of over a billion indians, to see what bollywood tells me is a beautiful white person; I would want to talk to them, A LOT, because I would also want to learn English so I could get a better job- and swindle tourists even better. After all, why not? They would make about 20,000x more than I do in a year.

So yeah- i suppose it is hard for me to connect to the actual people of India- lack of social tissue as Neibur would say. But- i am trying to understand their situation- which is, i suppose, a start. In this way, I feel it's good to be here; mcLeod was like a little buddhist retreat filled with kind tibetans and meditation- this is real India- with poverty and dirt and temples and holy water and Indians.

much love!!!- me

A note on new pictures: The first and last were taken in a low key neighborhood beyond the last ghat (steps) in Varanasi. The children in the last were all (as most are) thrilled to have their picture taken. The middle picture is simply a view from the river of one of the ghats- these structures were systematically built by the maharajas of Varanasi and other cities as- if I'm right here- sort of a mark of power/dynasty. One king started it so the rest had to follow suit. These are holy places were people come to perform rituals and bathe.

Also- looking back on what I wrote while in Varanasi, and then remembering it via these pictures- seems to be two different things. It could get very draining, yes, but it was also raw. It was real life in your face, and that's part-a mere facet- of the beauty of India.

la ti da

2006-08-01T08:37:00.000-07:00

so really I just have ten minutes of internet time left...

We've been in Varanasi for about six hours; we saw our first dead body right before dinner being paraded down the street with tambourines- but it was covered in beautiful flowers and cloth.

Our train here was 6.5 hours later- meaning it left at almost 3am. Since we had some time to kill, we wandered about Paharganj- the hippie/backpacker marketplace in Delhi and then got some drinks. It was good fun all around and the train ride was surprisingly nice (expect that there were baby roaches everywhere, but eh?).

talk to ya lata! mwah.

on the road again

2006-07-30T20:45:00.000-07:00

Whew. So I finally arrived in Majnu-ka-tilla, the Tibetan Refugee settlement in new delhi. The bus i took was first class- so you would think "good"-but they start playing these Balliwood movies at around 8:30/9 and it is really inhumane torture. Imagine three stooges humor, female degradation (as in, "i'm so stupid b/c i'm a woman. I love my husband while he cheats on me. praise god for men"), and old, coreographed music videos. Not to mention- the culture here is really into being white; as in, they have skin whitening cream (sort of like our instant tanner). They also want to be bigger. So... the main guys in these movies are always sort of pudgy, ugly, really white looking guys- like the office nerd.

But aside from balliwood- things are good and but transitional. I met a lot of really amazing people my last few days in McLeod. Some of these people are doing amazing things- starting up NGO's, working w/ the democractic party, studying aryudvedic medicine, etc. I had a great time with all these kids, but at the same time, situations like that always bring up a bit of inner turmoil- really because I think that I want to take off school and come here to study. But of course- semester at sea. I really need to be sure and go into this fall with a positive attitude, b/c right now I want to stay here. AND- the Dalai Lama is teaching August 14-19, but i really don't think I'll have time to get everything together for SAS if I'm only home for four days. :( (this is turning into a journal entry, alas).

I just need to think good thoughts.

What else? I'm leaving for Varanasi at 8:40 tonight. Whee!!!!! I'm meeting here with this really great girl Kathleen who I met a few weeks back here in delhi. It should be pretty fantastic- as well as hottttt and rainy.

You know what sucks? terrorism and ten year olds with bomb threats. There is very little cool shit (for me) in Delhi. There is, however, the red fort- big, old, cool building. However, it has gotten bomb threats for like 3 days- and i picked up the paper the other day (while I was painting that mural- which turned out really well) and the US embassy here has been getting threats and is on high alert. WTF mate? But then again- when is the US not on high alert? Regardless, I'll just be here for a few hours, so it will be fine.

hrm hrm. i think that's it for now. The mural painting was really fantastic- painting w/ enamel under two huge umbrellas while it rained all afternoon. whee!
And speaking of the mural...ta da. The left corner is cut off in this- but I thought I'd throw Raj in the pic for good measure. He's skwinting (how the hell do you spell that?) in the pic- but I wish you good have seen his eyes- like an egyptian. Anyhow- the mural was supposed to be east meets west and the play on how so many kids from the west come here to abandon tv, huge buildings, "life" and find some spiritual otherness. yes.

I'm super happy and India rocks!

2006-07-26T21:22:00.001-07:00

Wow- so I have left out a lot.

anyhoo- in the past few weeks we have gone to Tso Pema, a very holy place for Tibetans where Guru Rinpoche was born out of a lotus blossom. I ditched the group for the day and went to monasteries instead; one was having a puja (big day of chanting, mantras, etc.) and another was being repainted, which was amazing to watch b/c I've always been interested in the art. The Gudwara (sp?) there was also amazying- it's a sikh temple. The holy places here are so calm and special- I don't really have a word to describe it. You just feel that you're in a very clean, very ancient, very holy place.

Next we were off to Mandi- as Mimi put it "real india". I had a hard morning being surrounded by suffering, ashen beggar kids- the situation is so terrible sometimes. Later that day, however, these beautiful little girls came running up to me and gave me flowers. They were all ten and spoke english, which they learn in school. I was talking with a friend (a scotsman with the most gorgeous eyes i've ever seen) but when he left I ran to the courtyard to play with them. It was sooooo fun!!!! We ran to the clocktower and to temples; they taught me how to make and offering and then we played something like marco polo.
Eventually, I realized that aside from me and these children, everyone in the courtyard was a man staring at me oddly (westerners usually don't go to mandi- let alone run around for two hours like children). Also- they called me Didi, which means big sister. It was fantastic.

Now: I have left the group once again. The last 4 days of the trip were supposed to entail shopping in Delhi and seeing the Taj mahal in Agra. I stayed here and took an intense two day meditation course. It was amazing!!!! I have also been going to lots of teachings and just got the best massage ever. The meditations were great- but after 6 or so hours a day sitting in half lotus, ones body tends to hurt (a lot). So yeah- McLeod Ganj can be really great. There are so many classes constantly being offered and so much to do . I feel like I've really just settled in; I also realize that it would have been incredibly easy to take off fall semester and remain in India alone. Oh well.

Another cool note: I get to paint!!! on a wall!!! (baby mural) This Danish friend of mine introduced me to Raj, a nepali who just opened a restaurant (Carpe Diem) a few weeks back. It's a really great place; I went there for an open mic session on sunday that rocked my world. Anyhow, he is having artists paint on the walls of the roof where he will eventually have seating and a second kitchen. He provides paint and likely food (he's one of those spirits that is always so generous i wonder if he'll make money. ex- people help him with anyting or are his friends and he gives them free tea, coffee, food, etc. ) He also has really beautiful eyes- really feminine like an egyptian.

So things are great here. The monsoon is pretty intense and sometimes I feel like I'm walking through small rivers. It's also probably the worst time of year to go to Varanasi- but oh well!

hope everyone is well. I'm glowing (mainly b/c the massage was also facial- so I'm covered in almond oil. yum!)

Note on pictures: The first is a huge area of prayer flags near some caves in Tso Pema where hermetic monks and nuns go to meditate for years. There is also a cave nearby where Guru Rinpoche (seen in second picture) meditated for many years. We got to go in and meditate with Neil for awhile- who can chant it up like a Tibetan.

The next two pictures are in Mandi. The first is this ancient temple on the river. We woke up early and went to walk before the sun was out in full force and the fog hung over the river in a perfect sheet.

The last two pics are outside Tushita Meditation center in Dharmcot- which is the village right about McLeod. I think they perfectly exemplify what I was trying to tell my mom: up there, it didn't even feel like India. It was like- the mists of avalon or something. Beautiful.

The mountains

2006-07-17T01:10:00.000-07:00

Yesterday we got back from our hike to Triune. It's a baby (still almost 2 miles) in the Himalayas and it's probably the most beautiful place I've ever been. The climb was about four hours up. At the top are two chai shops and two lodges- plus a whole lot of pasture land with water buffalo, cattle, sheep, and donkeys, huge boulders, crows, eagles, and most importantly- clouds. The coulds are everywehre- above you- below you- then they swallow the moutain.

One family in particular are friends with Neil- they run one of the chai shops. Sunil is the main guy; his mother is weathered and strong. This beautiful indian woman with few teeth- bindis- bright but tattered clothes- hikes all over this mountain touting loads of grass on her back that are probably 100 pounds- size wise a small person. She also makes the most amazing noises to call all the animals. Then there is Tickaloo- a 15 year old who puts american teens to shame. We would order dinner- a big group meal of dahl- and he cooks for everyone on one stove for hours. They can all run over these mountains so quickly. Tickaloo also make a dijerido (sp??/) out of PVC piping and it sounds awesome.

So yes- the mountain was a spectacular break from city life and people. It makes me want to trek through the Himalayas (more).

thats all for noww :)

Note on pictures: The first is a little shrine to Shiva. They are everywhere on the mountain paths. I find it interesting, also, the split iconography of cultures. ex- The trident is a symbol of Shiva, and many of his followers use red and orange. As a result, these little shrines may simply be stone structures with red paint altars and tridents-- sound a little different to a westerner? yeah, but they were beautiful. This last one is just mountain goats. They were all over, and Sunil's mom can heard them quickly using some of the strangest noises I've ever heard.

not so bad

2006-07-13T20:55:00.000-07:00

So I believe my last post was likely a bit disheartening, but india isn't so bad. I went back and got drum lessons from swindly drum boy, and I actually love it and I'm really glad I'm finally learning to play.

and yeah- to anyone actually reading this we are really far away from Mumbai/Bombay and the train bombings. aka: i'm fine.

Today I'm leaving for a hike up to Triune- it's about five hours ending in being really high up and really cold. Should be spectacular.

I think the temple here is so far my favorite part. The streets are like malls but worse, and since i don't really like even going to malls, it gets a bit tiring. But the temple is so quiet and peaceful and in the morning the monks all pray for hours if you wake up early enough to hear them. The Tibetan people are also very beautiful. Maybe it's lots of good karma- they have high cheek bones and golden skin and the old women are always so kind and happy.

Ten ruppee (20 cent) momo's (dumplings) are also high on my list. yum. next post I will try to put up pictures.

sickness and swindlers

2006-07-11T20:55:00.000-07:00

so i suppose living in the clouds has its down points- like everyone having a cold because you are always damp. There are also ameobas in the water. eek. Also, I spent far too much on a slighty cool bongo drum that I bought from some greasy well dressed kid from Varanasi. damnit. I have always wanted to learn how to play drums, so now I will.

got to go

Dreams

2006-07-08T00:47:00.000-07:00

Hello beautiful friends!

I am unsure as to how to post pictures at this moment, so you will be left with only my words. I am in McCloud Gounj (sp?) now and it is the most beautiful place I have ever been. We are two miles up and in the clouds-literally.

We stayed in Delhi for three nights in what was (according to some) sort of a slum- but I thought it was great. It was a packed tibetan regugee colony. There aren't really roads, just alley ways. You think its raining- but really its the air conditioners dripping.

Delhi is a city of birds. The crows were everywhere- all over the hotel--which was covered in prayer flags. Yes, the city was dirty and polluted, but it was great. I imagine New Orleans being much the same in a few hundred years--except minus the intense religious influence.

cool points thus far:

-sihk temple- no shoes- flower chains- music/prayer
-ba'hai temple-shaped like a lotus- pools of clean water and full of birds (below)
-Tashi-one of our guides and LHA workers- is great and very friendly
-this entire town (completely gorgeous)
-the dalai lama's birthday in delhi- there was a big party with many different sets of women and children dancing- one little girl loved me and kept sitting on my lap and giving me her hair barrets- tashi asked her if i was her mom, she said 'no , my sister' :D There were flower chains everywhere and afterward I ate with the tibetans and indians celebrating
-Lahmo is the woman i am working with on her english- I just met ehr today but she's great- and a yogi :)

Dharamsala is filled with classes- learn massage, get massage, learn yoga, learn reiki, get acupuncture-or acupressure, play the sitar, etc, etc... The sun rises at 5:30 or earlier- and I must say it's far better to be up for that and enjoy this place during the day.

what else? so much. I suppose the beggars are difficult to deal with- only because there are so many- but what it costs to give to them translates to almost nothing for me
--I suppose it is just a lesson in my own humanity.

hope everyone is well --- much love -- me

note on pictures: first is really basic of McLeod from our hotel roof. The sunset picture is of the Yamuna River; it runs through Delhi and Agra as well (where the Taj is). That photo was taken from our hotel balcony. The other was just a picture of a rooftop in Majnu-ka-tilla. I loved the cramped, dingy buildings all covered in prayer flags. The last is the Ba'hai temple.

2006-06-29T15:11:00.000-07:00

Lets all hold hands and hope this blog thing works, eh???